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		<title>Comment on Character Analysis by novice counselor</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/07/04/character-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-241</link>
		<dc:creator>novice counselor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 00:53:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i did indeed!  You could tell, right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i did indeed!  You could tell, right?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Character Analysis by Jessi</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/07/04/character-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-240</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 21:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You went to Capella, didn&#039;t you? :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You went to Capella, didn&#8217;t you? <img src='http://www.novicecounselor.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Colonial Mentality? by Rene Schubach</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/21/colonial-mentality/comment-page-1/#comment-162</link>
		<dc:creator>Rene Schubach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 21:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, just wanted you to know I have added your site to my Google bookmarks because of your great blog layout. But in earnest, I think your site has one of the simplest theme I&#039;ve came across. It really helps make reading your blog a lot easier.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, just wanted you to know I have added your site to my Google bookmarks because of your great blog layout. But in earnest, I think your site has one of the simplest theme I&#8217;ve came across. It really helps make reading your blog a lot easier.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ethical Dilemmas in Domestic Violence by flashy Mc loop</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/25/ethical-dilemmas-in-domestic-violence/comment-page-1/#comment-157</link>
		<dc:creator>flashy Mc loop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you! just what I need to read right now...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you! just what I need to read right now&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Existential Therapy by Clare Mann</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/25/existential-therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-155</link>
		<dc:creator>Clare Mann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 01:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Valuable comparisons being made here. I have a few thoughts on the existential perspective.  It might be more accurate to consider &#039;creating meaning&#039; rather than finding it - subtle words but profound in that the notion that &#039;it exists out there but is as yet illusive&#039; is very different than living with the total co-construction of our reality i.e. that nothing is fixed.  The Existential-Phenomenological perspective questions the assumption of fixed identity, instead, seeing Self as a focal point in relation, i.e. the self-in-relation (to others, to itself) rather than a fixed or separate entity.  (Heidegger 1962, Spinelli 1994). 

&#039;Understanding Jake&#039;s condition&#039; might possibly be understood as &#039;it is measurable and identifiable&#039;.  Subtle words again but the key is to &#039;help Jake understand his predicament&#039; - care must be taken by the therapist not to &#039;fix&#039; the condition by applying existential concepts as items - instead by using their relationship the client came bring into awareness his worldviews i.e. personal, social, physical and worldviews - which are ever changing and intersubjective.  

&#039;Gaining closure&#039; is an interesting notion. A client can be assisted to confront &#039;their&#039; meanings of endings.  &#039;Closure&#039; is, as with each of our experiences, a highly subjective process - there is no point at which something is ended - it is merely re-oriented within our &#039;meaning making&#039; existence.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Valuable comparisons being made here. I have a few thoughts on the existential perspective.  It might be more accurate to consider &#8216;creating meaning&#8217; rather than finding it &#8211; subtle words but profound in that the notion that &#8216;it exists out there but is as yet illusive&#8217; is very different than living with the total co-construction of our reality i.e. that nothing is fixed.  The Existential-Phenomenological perspective questions the assumption of fixed identity, instead, seeing Self as a focal point in relation, i.e. the self-in-relation (to others, to itself) rather than a fixed or separate entity.  (Heidegger 1962, Spinelli 1994). </p>
<p>&#8216;Understanding Jake&#8217;s condition&#8217; might possibly be understood as &#8216;it is measurable and identifiable&#8217;.  Subtle words again but the key is to &#8216;help Jake understand his predicament&#8217; &#8211; care must be taken by the therapist not to &#8216;fix&#8217; the condition by applying existential concepts as items &#8211; instead by using their relationship the client came bring into awareness his worldviews i.e. personal, social, physical and worldviews &#8211; which are ever changing and intersubjective.  </p>
<p>&#8216;Gaining closure&#8217; is an interesting notion. A client can be assisted to confront &#8216;their&#8217; meanings of endings.  &#8216;Closure&#8217; is, as with each of our experiences, a highly subjective process &#8211; there is no point at which something is ended &#8211; it is merely re-oriented within our &#8216;meaning making&#8217; existence.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Narative Approach by Dawn Pugh</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/23/narative-approach/comment-page-1/#comment-142</link>
		<dc:creator>Dawn Pugh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 18:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,
I really enjoyed reading your article and wanted to emphasize the following statement

“Life stories are intelligible within a particular cultural frame, and yet they also differentiate one person from the next.”

Working with people offers us the chance to experience so many unique and variable personas,
I personally feel privileged because of this.

Thank you
Regards
Dawn Pugh</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,<br />
I really enjoyed reading your article and wanted to emphasize the following statement</p>
<p>“Life stories are intelligible within a particular cultural frame, and yet they also differentiate one person from the next.”</p>
<p>Working with people offers us the chance to experience so many unique and variable personas,<br />
I personally feel privileged because of this.</p>
<p>Thank you<br />
Regards<br />
Dawn Pugh</p>
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		<title>Comment on Social-Cognitive Theory and Self-Esteem by therapy counseling</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/06/13/social-cognitive-theory-and-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-110</link>
		<dc:creator>therapy counseling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 15:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I went to therapy counseling when I had problems with my husband. The person who I talked to was very helpful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went to therapy counseling when I had problems with my husband. The person who I talked to was very helpful.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Structural Family Therapy by Family Therapist</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/22/structural-family-therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-100</link>
		<dc:creator>Family Therapist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article on structural family therapy. This method is very effective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article on structural family therapy. This method is very effective.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ethical Dilemmas in Domestic Violence by A consultant in India &#8211; Part 5 &#171; Francesco&#8217;s Weblog</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/25/ethical-dilemmas-in-domestic-violence/comment-page-1/#comment-99</link>
		<dc:creator>A consultant in India &#8211; Part 5 &#171; Francesco&#8217;s Weblog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 10:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Treating a Client with Low Self-Esteem by May&#8217;s Woman to Woman Blog Carnival &#171; Homespun Healers</title>
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		<dc:creator>May&#8217;s Woman to Woman Blog Carnival &#171; Homespun Healers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 16:53:51 +0000</pubDate>
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