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		<title>Comment on Treating a Client with Low Self-Esteem by Change For The Better: The Top Uses Of Hypnosis</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/20/treating-a-client-with-low-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-336</link>
		<dc:creator>Change For The Better: The Top Uses Of Hypnosis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 05:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] on what will eventually make us happy and lead us towards the ultimate sense of self-fulfillment. Contrary to myths, hypnotism is not the same fearful picture painted by earlier displays of stage hy...concentration is required. All types of hypnotism are actually self-imposed. For those who do not [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] on what will eventually make us happy and lead us towards the ultimate sense of self-fulfillment. Contrary to myths, hypnotism is not the same fearful picture painted by earlier displays of stage hy&#8230;concentration is required. All types of hypnotism are actually self-imposed. For those who do not [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Treating a Client with Low Self-Esteem by Dealing With Low Self Esteem Guide &#124; Self Help Now</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dealing With Low Self Esteem Guide &#124; Self Help Now</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 14:05:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] you&#039;ll like yourself more and more.  Written by cadencefreelance writer, reality television fanatic  Having low self esteem stinks. Plain and simple. The thing is, it&#039;s hard to move past having low se...ut of our low self esteem, but we sink [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] you&#039;ll like yourself more and more.  Written by cadencefreelance writer, reality television fanatic  Having low self esteem stinks. Plain and simple. The thing is, it&#039;s hard to move past having low se&#8230;ut of our low self esteem, but we sink [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Treating a Client with Low Self-Esteem by Does jealousy tie in with low self esteem? &#124; Stop Jealousy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Does jealousy tie in with low self esteem? &#124; Stop Jealousy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 07:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] for others to entertain then and never try to do anything on their own. Set goals and achieve them.Like, people who get jealous do they most likely suffer from low self esteem? yes..people with low s... them.     WordPress &#8250; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] for others to entertain then and never try to do anything on their own. Set goals and achieve them.Like, people who get jealous do they most likely suffer from low self esteem? yes..people with low s&#8230; them.     WordPress &rsaquo; [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ordinary People by fern</title>
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		<dc:creator>fern</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 21:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You might mention the inappropriate cradling of Conrad and Dr. Berger&#039;s claim that they were &quot;friends&quot;...Both a mistake and very unprofessional.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might mention the inappropriate cradling of Conrad and Dr. Berger&#8217;s claim that they were &#8220;friends&#8221;&#8230;Both a mistake and very unprofessional.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Treating a Client with Low Self-Esteem by How to Boost Your Self-Esteem in Seven Steps &#124; Learn How to Let Go with The Sedona Method Program</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to Boost Your Self-Esteem in Seven Steps &#124; Learn How to Let Go with The Sedona Method Program</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 21:18:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] out what it is that makes you happy in life, and make it a point to spend lots of time doing it.When your self-esteem is not where it should be, it can feel like you’re walking through life with...present themselves, you may doubt your very merit as an individual. People who lack self-esteem will [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] out what it is that makes you happy in life, and make it a point to spend lots of time doing it.When your self-esteem is not where it should be, it can feel like you’re walking through life with&#8230;present themselves, you may doubt your very merit as an individual. People who lack self-esteem will [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Narative Approach by munichia</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/23/narative-approach/comment-page-1/#comment-316</link>
		<dc:creator>munichia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 18:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great information!  We probably go to the same school because many of my topics in counseling you address.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great information!  We probably go to the same school because many of my topics in counseling you address.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Treating a Client with Low Self-Esteem by You Have Options And The Capability To Reverse Low Self Esteem &#124; Summer Fat Loss</title>
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		<dc:creator>You Have Options And The Capability To Reverse Low Self Esteem &#124; Summer Fat Loss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 11:41:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] free&#160;health tips here...People with poor self esteem typically are able to tell. Your self esteem has an effect on your pers...nd can be achieved with the right information, hopefully some support and [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] free&nbsp;health tips here&#8230;People with poor self esteem typically are able to tell. Your self esteem has an effect on your pers&#8230;nd can be achieved with the right information, hopefully some support and [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Structural Family Therapy by Charlton Hall, LMFT</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlton Hall, LMFT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 04:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like Structural...or at least elements of it. I especially like the idea of helping clients become &#039;co-therapists.&#039; I always tell my clients that my ultimate goal is to work myself out of a job.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like Structural&#8230;or at least elements of it. I especially like the idea of helping clients become &#8216;co-therapists.&#8217; I always tell my clients that my ultimate goal is to work myself out of a job.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Existential Therapy by novice counselor</title>
		<link>http://www.novicecounselor.com/2009/03/25/existential-therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-308</link>
		<dc:creator>novice counselor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 19:16:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree.  The therapist needs to experience the client&#039;s emotions or at least have a good idea what it is like to feel as the client does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree.  The therapist needs to experience the client&#8217;s emotions or at least have a good idea what it is like to feel as the client does.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Existential Therapy by Marc Handelman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Handelman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 14:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Psychotherapists must always start off trying to meet their patients on an experiential level. Failing to do so leads to objectification and dehumanization of the other person. Whether or not various psychological techniques are used, or physiological interventions such as medication are administered, a therapist’s primary task begins in finding access to the patient’s emotional state. The work of a therapist must involve the experience of the patient in all its nuance and complexity.

For the therapist who works within an experiential framework, a large part of the work must involve finding access to the experiences of his patients in himself. While being a ‘warm and caring’ therapist may be important, it is relatively hollow in contrast to the therapist actually having a sense of how it feels to be you, how it feels to be experiencing the world as you do. A therapist must be comfortable sitting with feelings, both yours and his own, if he is to be helpful. The need to objectify patients and rely primarily on a conceptual or theoretical understanding of their problems, or a categorical diagnosis, often serves as a defense and blocks truly knowing the patient’s suffering and struggles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Psychotherapists must always start off trying to meet their patients on an experiential level. Failing to do so leads to objectification and dehumanization of the other person. Whether or not various psychological techniques are used, or physiological interventions such as medication are administered, a therapist’s primary task begins in finding access to the patient’s emotional state. The work of a therapist must involve the experience of the patient in all its nuance and complexity.</p>
<p>For the therapist who works within an experiential framework, a large part of the work must involve finding access to the experiences of his patients in himself. While being a ‘warm and caring’ therapist may be important, it is relatively hollow in contrast to the therapist actually having a sense of how it feels to be you, how it feels to be experiencing the world as you do. A therapist must be comfortable sitting with feelings, both yours and his own, if he is to be helpful. The need to objectify patients and rely primarily on a conceptual or theoretical understanding of their problems, or a categorical diagnosis, often serves as a defense and blocks truly knowing the patient’s suffering and struggles.</p>
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